The Beginner’s Skincare Guide to Healthy Aging

Updated 11/25/20. As an esthetician, I’m always asked, “What should I be doing to my skin NOW to prevent wrinkles from appearing later?” In this post, I’ll share why the skin ages and how to help slow it down from appearing as quickly.

Learn the difference between intrinsic and extrinsic aging

We’ve all heard someone say, “Look how young he or she looks. They must have good genes.” While we are genetically programmed from birth to age a certain way (called intrinsic aging), genetics are now thought to be responsible for only 20-30% of aging.

The other 70%-80% of how you’ll visibly age depends on extrinsic aging. This comes from your environment, lifestyle, and skincare choices—all of which you have control over.

This is great news because it confirms that how we care for our skin far outweighs our genetic predisposition but it’s all about making really good choices.

Your guide to healthy aging

Here’s what you can start doing NOW to promote healthy skin aging.

Limit your sun exposure

UV rays given off by the sun are the #1 reason for premature skin aging. A study out of Australia even showed that “the skin of daily sunscreen users aged a full 24% less than that of occasional wearers”. To prevent this, you must wear sunscreen every day, 365 days a year, rain or shine, inside or out. For me, I started wearing sunscreen every day when I was 28 years old, which was considered pretty early back in 1998. I would have worn it earlier in my 20s but I just couldn’t find one that didn’t make me break out so I created this lightweight one and have worn it every single day ever since—without fail. (It’s my daily moisturizer so no moisturizer is needed once I apply it.)

I really envy (and admire!) all of the teens out there who are diligent about wearing sunscreen. They are so lucky to have this knowledge and be able to put it into practice at such a young age. Sunscreen will undoubtedly dramatically slow how quickly the skin shows visible signs of aging so be sure to make it a daily habit. (Many people aren’t using it correctly. Learn how to apply sunscreen the right way.)

Be mindful of your sleeping positions

Did you know that sleeping may be the second most prominent cause of wrinkles? After sun exposure, sleeping on the side is like ironing wrinkles into the skin. To prevent crepes between the breasts, marionette lines around the mouth and wrinkles around the eyes, try to get in the habit of sleeping on your back. If you sleep on your side, you could potentially be spending more than 2,500 hours per year reversing the positive effects of your skincare treatments. (See how I sleep.)

Avoid unnecessary facial expressions

Creases from repetitive face movements (squinting, laughing, smiling, talking, yawning) eventually set in. This ultimately results in lines and wrinkles. Of course, our faces were meant to move, but you do want to avoid facial expressions that are unnecessary such as squinting. This will accelerate wrinkles around the eyes so be sure to wear sunglasses when outdoors and don’t put off getting your eyes checked.

Defy gravity by exercising facial muscles

The pull of gravity through the years causes the muscles of the face to sag, especially those that are never used. Skin professionals used to think that this was not preventable, but now we understand exercising the muscles beneath the skin can help the face appear tighter and firmer. (Fun fact: We have 53 muscles in our face, and 32 of them are accessible for exercise.)

Professional microcurrent treatments are excellent for strengthening the facial muscles. For home use, Nu Face makes a great device to keep up the results. Just like how exercising the muscles in your arms can make them look toned, these treatments can do the same for the skin.

I have a Nu Face device that when I use, I like the tightness it gives.

Be mindful of the clothes you wear

When your skin is exposed to UV light, you will most certainly accelerate skin aging. Stop wearing this piece of clothing if you want to save your skin—and chest!

Live a healthy lifestyle

This includes eating foods high in nutritional value and antioxidants, sleeping 7-9 hours a night, exercising to keep good circulation in the body, and focusing on living your best, happiest life filled with love and laughter. As for laughter, doctors and health professionals are prescribing laughter to lower blood pressure, reduce stress hormones, and increase disease-fighting cells, which leads to a healthier immune system. Laughter is free, fun and everyone can do it. It’s no wonder you always hear, “Laughter is the best medicine.”

Avoid smoking and second-hand smoke

Smoking starves cells of oxygen, resulting in dull, tired-looking skin. Also, collagen-destroying enzymes (MMPs) ramp up when exposed to tobacco smoke. This dramatically increases how quickly the skin ages. Read more about how smoking affects the skin.

Limit your use of alcohol and drugs

Every drug will affect the body differently, but generally speaking, medications and drugs can stress the nervous system. This, in turn, elevates hormones (adrenals) which contribute to the wear and tear of connective tissue, resulting in flaccid, loose, sagging skin.

As for alcohol, it’s not doing your skin any favors either. Overconsumption of alcohol causes chronic inflammation and harmful free radical activity which is the underlying of skin aging. Learn more about how drinking alcohol affects your skin.

Consider how your profession might contribute to an acceleration of visible aging

You might be surprised to know that having a profession as a chef or a pilot will look older faster than a profession that requires someone to sit indoors at a desk. See a list of jobs that might age your skin faster.

To learn more about how lifestyle choices affect the skin’s appearance, check out what researchers confirmed through two studies of 144 pairs of identical twins in 2009 and 2013. They concluded that smoking, sun exposure, and other factors such as BMI, marital status, and anti-depressants, can age us.

At what age should you start using preventative aging products?

Answer: Six months old. (Well for sunscreen, that is.)

Since the sun is the primary cause of premature aging, this makes sunscreen the most biologically active ingredient available. Sunscreen, more so than any other over-the-counter skincare product, has the greatest ability to prevent wrinkles and premature skin aging. Sunscreen can be applied to children as young as six months of age. (Of course, get a recommendation from your doctor as to the best one for an infant.) This essentially means that the concept of healthy aging begins at less than one year of age. Never too early to start, right? Weightless Protection SPF 30 is the one I recommend for everyday use under makeup.

As for other skincare products, a serum is considered a game-changer in that it is designed to create positive change in the behavior of your skin. However, depending on the ingredients (such as certain vitamin combinations and peptides), it may not be appropriate for those in their 20s and younger. This is because many serums are formulated to increase the metabolism of the cells. This action is needed for skin that is showing a lot of signs of aging but may be too active for younger skin and those prone to breakouts since this type of skin already has an active metabolism. When choosing a serum, be sure to find one that’s right for your skin type.

What type of ingredients should be in your skincare products for healthy aging?

Retinol or retinoids

We can now safely speed up the skin renewal process without unwanted dryness and irritation with products that contain retinol. It’s important to note that not all retinol products are equal. Be sure to look for these four things when choosing a retinol product.

Vitamin C

Vitamin C has been the most extensively researched antioxidants in skincare. It’s found to be extremely effective in interfering with many aging free radicals found in the environment such as sunlight, stress, and pollutants. It is recommended to be worn daily under a moisturizer containing sunscreen. This antioxidant not only gives your skin its daily dose of healthy aging but it is also helpful with reducing discoloration and brown spots. Vitamin C&E Treatment is an excellent formula for daily use.

Here are more of my favorite age-defying ingredients that you should be using in your skincare products.

Will anti-aging products make the skin worse if your skin is prone to clogged pores and breakouts?

It’s important to know that you must always choose products that are appropriate for your skin type — even when it comes to products that slow down visible aging. Many cosmetic companies assume those who want anti-aging care must have dry skin but this is not accurate. For those who produce oil and are prone to breakouts (like skin types #1-#4), using products for dry skin can be problematic. It is possible for all skin types to preserve their youthful appearance and achieve their skincare goals with the right balance of products. Take my Skin Type Quiz to learn about which products are best suited for your skin’s unique needs.

In summary, it’s all about prevention. How you take care of your skin, body and mind now will pave the road for how you will look and feel in the future. Make caring for your skin a priority and you will get the reward of beautiful, healthy skin for a lifetime.

P.S. Consider yourself lucky if you have these three genetic facial features that will guarantee you’ll look younger longer.

Lastly, here are 10 skincare rules I swear by.


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    I am in Australia. How can I access your products

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